… then, forge your own path.
And, when you do so, do so with conviction. Just because a certain approach worked for someone else doesn’t mean it will work with you. Very few people rarely know better. Those who do have just gotten to be good at guessing. And, they’ve gotten to be good at guessing by making many bad guesses.
So, things will definitely not work as per plan. But, it is better to be sure, wrong and open to change than to be perennially in doubt.
At any rate, you’ll become a better guesser..